Remembering Mom

We hear a lot of jokes about mothers-in-law. Heck, I have friends who don't like theirs at all. But mine was great. We were good friends and never had a cross word between us in all the years we knew each other. She was great fun. She taught me how to shop using coupons and got me hooked on garage sales. When we were first married and times were tough she and my father-in-law would come to visit bearing grocery bags full of food. We both loved to watch Dancing with the Stars and any time I was staying at her place to help out we'd camp out on the couch and root for our favorites. We lost her earlier this month and it was hard to let go. I miss her.
    Her passing has not only left a hole in my life, it's made me stop and think. Whose life am I impacting? Am I making a difference in the lives of my family and friends? My community? Mom was 90 when she died. Seems like such a long time, but she was the first to say those ninety years went in a blink. And boy, do I understand. Oh, Lord, help me to pack each day with kindness and grace. Don't let me waste time in mindless pursuits or on bitterness or resentment. Help me be thankful for each day and each person in it.
    And Mom, rest in peace. I love you!

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